A man is unlikely to be brought within earshot of women as they judge men's appearance, height, muscle tone, sexual technique, penis size, personal grooming, or taste in clothes--all of which we do. The fact is that women are able to view men just as men view women, as objects for sexual and aesthetic evaluation; we too are effortlessly able to choose the male "ideal" from a lineup and if we could have male beauty as well as everything else, most of us would not say no. But so what? Given all that, women make the choice, by and large, to take men as human beings first. Naomi Wolf
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It's not the male's fault that women are shallow, but it is his responsibility to protect himself from her. The fact of the matter is that women evaluate men based on his appearance. If she did not, she would think no better of him than he thinks of himself. A man can do everything he can to make himself look good, but if he is not attractive to the eye of a woman, he's not going to get anywhere with her.

Source: The Beauty Myth

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